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Matthew 18 The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant

1 The Greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”

2 He called a little child and had him stand among them.

3 And he said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.

4 Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

5 “And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me.

6 But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

7 “Woe to the world because of the things that cause people to sin! Such things must come, but woe to the man through whom they come!

8 If your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.

9 And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

10 The Parable of the Lost Sheep
“See that you do not look down on one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven.

12 “What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off?

13 And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.

14 In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost.

15 A Brother Who Sins Against You
“If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.

16 But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’

17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

18 “I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.

19 “Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.

20 For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.”

21 The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.

23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.

24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him.

25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.

26 “The servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’

27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’

30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt.

31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened.

32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to.

33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’

34 In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”

Analysis of Matthew Chapter 18

Matthew Chapter 18 is one of the profound discourses of Jesus, often referred to as the “Discourse on the Church”. In this chapter, Jesus addresses various issues among His disciples and speaks extensively about humility, the dangers of causing others to sin, the importance of seeking the lost, dealing with sin in the church, and the imperative of forgiveness. The teachings in this chapter are both challenging and encouraging, calling believers to live out kingdom values in their interpersonal relationships.

Verses 1-5: The Greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven

The chapter begins with a question from the disciples: “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” (Matthew 18:1). This inquiry reveals their concern with status and recognition. Jesus responds by using a child as an object lesson, emphasizing the importance of humility and child-like trust.

“And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, ‘Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.'” (Matthew 18:2-4)

Here, Jesus highlights three key attributes:

  • Humility: Similar to a child’s unpretentious nature, believers are to adopt a humble stance, recognizing their dependence on God.
  • Trust: A childlike trust in God’s provisions and promises is essential for entering the kingdom of heaven.
  • Simplicity: Children exemplify simplicity in faith, free from the complexities and self-importance that often burden adults.

This teaching is counter-cultural, especially in a society that often values power and prestige. Jesus underscores that greatness in His kingdom is measured by humility and childlike openness, not by self-assertion or dominance.

Verses 6-9: Warning Against Causing Others to Sin

Jesus then issues a stern warning against causing others, especially believers who are likened to ‘little ones’, to sin:

“But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6)

This hyperbolic statement emphasizes the gravity of leading others into sin. It underscores the responsibility that believers have towards one another, highlighting the following principles:

  • Accountability: Believers are accountable for their actions, especially when it comes to influencing others.
  • Protection: The community of believers must protect the spiritual well-being of its members, particularly those who are vulnerable.
  • Vigilance: There should be a vigilant watchfulness to avoid causing scandal or leading others astray.

Jesus continues with more stark imagery to communicate the seriousness of sin:

“And if your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life crippled or lame than with two hands or two feet to be thrown into the eternal fire.” (Matthew 18:8)

While not to be taken literally, this exaggeration underscores the radical measures required to avoid sin. It stresses the necessity of removing anything from one’s life that could lead to sin, demonstrating the importance of spiritual integrity and the avoidance of moral compromise.

Verses 10-14: The Parable of the Lost Sheep

Jesus continues, emphasizing the value of every individual believer through the Parable of the Lost Sheep.

“What do you think? If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray?” (Matthew 18:12)

This parable illustrates several key themes:

  • Compassion: The shepherd’s willingness to leave the ninety-nine to find the one reflects the compassionate heart of God who seeks out those who are lost.
  • Value of Individuals: Every individual is valued by God. No one is insignificant, and thus, no effort to restore a lost soul is too great.
  • Joy in Restoration: There is great joy in heaven over one sinner who repents. This elevates the significance of individual repentance and restoration.

Jesus reinforces that it is not the will of the Father that any of these ‘little ones’ should perish, emphasizing God’s desire for the salvation of all.

Verses 15-20: Dealing with Sin in the Church

Jesus then provides instructions for dealing with sin within the community of believers. The process outlined here seeks to balance mercy, justice, and communal integrity.

“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.” (Matthew 18:15)

This passage outlines a step-by-step process for addressing personal grievances:

  1. Private Confrontation: The initial step is a private, direct conversation between the offended and the offender. This seeks to resolve conflicts discreetly without causing public embarrassment.
  2. Involving Witnesses: If the private confrontation fails, the next step is to involve one or two others to establish the facts and encourage resolution.
  3. Community Involvement: If the issue remains unresolved, it is brought before the church community to seek a resolution. This represents the collective wisdom and authority of the church.
  4. Separation if Necessary: If the offender refuses to listen even to the church, they are to be treated as ‘a Gentile and a tax collector’, signifying a break in fellowship to protect the community’s integrity.

This process exemplifies a balanced approach to conflict resolution, emphasizing restoration and reconciliation while upholding communal holiness. The emphasis is on gaining a brother rather than punishment.

“Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” (Matthew 18:18)

This authority given to the church emphasizes the spiritual responsibility and authority granted to the community of believers to make decisions in alignment with heaven’s will.

Verses 21-35: The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant

The chapter concludes with one of Jesus’ most powerful parables on forgiveness, prompted by Peter’s question about the limits of forgiveness:

“Then Peter came up and said to him, ‘Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.'” (Matthew 18:21-22)

Jesus’ response, ‘seventy-seven times’, signifies an unlimited willingness to forgive, far beyond any numeric count. He then tells the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant to illustrate the necessity of forgiveness:

“Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.” (Matthew 18:23-24)

This servant, unable to repay his enormous debt, begs for mercy, and the king compassionately forgives the entire debt, demonstrating God’s immense grace and mercy. However, the forgiven servant then refuses to show the same mercy to a fellow servant who owes him a much smaller amount, leading to dire consequences:

“In anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.” (Matthew 18:34-35)

This parable underscores several essential lessons on forgiveness:

  • Understanding God’s Mercy: The incredible grace we receive from God should transform our hearts to extend the same mercy and forgiveness to others.
  • Imitating God’s Forgiveness: As recipients of divine forgiveness, believers are called to embody that same grace in their interpersonal relationships.
  • Warning Against Unforgiveness: The parable concludes with a stern warning that those who refuse to forgive will find themselves subject to divine judgment.

This teaching conclusively ties the chapter together, emphasizing the transformative power of forgiveness and the necessity of embodying kingdom values in communal relationships.

Conclusion

Matthew Chapter 18 offers profound insights into the nature of the Kingdom of Heaven and the ethical demands it places on believers. It stresses the importance of humility, responsibility in safeguarding one another from sin, persistent compassion in seeking the lost, just yet redemptive dealing with sin in the community, and the imperative of unlimited forgiveness.

This chapter calls believers to a higher standard of living that reflects the character and priorities of God’s kingdom. By living out these principles, believers collectively testify to the transformative power of the Gospel, embodying a community marked by humility, holiness, and love.

Understanding the Key Messages in Matthew 18: Insights and Explanation

This chapter begins with Jesus teaching about the importance of humility and childlike faith. He warns against causing others to stumble and encourages forgiveness. Jesus tells the parable of the unmerciful servant, emphasizing the need for forgiveness as God has forgiven us. He concludes by teaching about the power of united prayer.

Notes

This chapter highlights the importance of forgiveness and humbleness in our relationships with others. It also emphasizes the significance of united prayer in the life of a believer.