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2 Samuel 13:1-18

1 Amnon and Tamar
In the course of time, Amnon son of David fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of Absalom son of David.

2 Amnon became frustrated to the point of illness on account of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible for him to do anything to her.

3 Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab son of Shimeah, David’s brother. Jonadab was a very shrewd man.

4 He asked Amnon, “Why do you, the king’s son, look so haggard morning after morning? Won’t you tell me?”
Amnon said to him, “I’m in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

5 “Go to bed and pretend to be ill,” Jonadab said. “When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘I would like my sister Tamar to come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare the food in my sight so I may watch her and then eat it from her hand.’”

6 So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to him, “I would like my sister Tamar to come and make some special bread in my sight, so I may eat from her hand.”

7 David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Go to the house of your brother Amnon and prepare some food for him.”

8 So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made the bread in his sight and baked it.

9 Then she took the pan and served him the bread, but he refused to eat.
“Send everyone out of here,” Amnon said. So everyone left him.

10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food here into my bedroom so I may eat from your hand.” And Tamar took the bread she had prepared and brought it to her brother Amnon in his bedroom.

11 But when she took it to him to eat, he grabbed her and said, “Come to bed with me, my sister.”

12 “Don’t, my brother!” she said to him. “Don’t force me. Such a thing should not be done in Israel! Don’t do this wicked thing.

13 What about me? Where could I get rid of my disgrace? And what about you? You would be like one of the wicked fools in Israel. Please speak to the king; he will not keep me from being married to you.”

14 But he refused to listen to her, and since he was stronger than she, he raped her.

15 Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her. Amnon said to her, “Get up and get out!”

16 “No!” she said to him. “Sending me away would be a greater wrong than what you have already done to me.”
But he refused to listen to her.

17 He called his personal servant and said, “Get this woman out of here and bolt the door after her.”

18 So his servant put her out and bolted the door after her. She was wearing a richly ornamented robe, for this was the kind of garment the virgin daughters of the king wore.

Cross References for 2 Samuel 13:1-18

Genesis 6:2 - the sons of God saw that the daughters of men were beautiful, and they married any of them they... Click to read the verse Genesis 6:2 Click to read the verse Genesis 6:2

2 Samuel 11:2 - One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roo... Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 11:2 Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 11:2

Genesis 39:6-7 - So he left in Joseph’s care everything he had; with Joseph in charge, he did not concern himsel... Click to read the verse Genesis 39:6-7 Click to read the verse Genesis 39:6-7

Genesis 29:18 - Jacob was in love with Rachel and said, “I’ll work for you seven years in return for your young... Click to read the verse Genesis 29:18 Click to read the verse Genesis 29:18

Proverbs 31:30 - Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Click to read the verse Proverbs 31:30 Click to read the verse Proverbs 31:30

Genesis 29:20 - So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because ... Click to read the verse Genesis 29:20 Click to read the verse Genesis 29:20

Genesis 34:3 - His heart was drawn to Dinah daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke tenderly to her. Click to read the verse Genesis 34:3 Click to read the verse Genesis 34:3

2 Samuel 13:15 - Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her. Amn... Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 13:15 Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 13:15

Ezekiel 22:11 - In you one man commits a detestable offense with his neighbor’s wife, another shamefully defile... Click to read the verse Ezekiel 22:11 Click to read the verse Ezekiel 22:11

Deuteronomy 27:22 - “Cursed is the man who sleeps with his sister, the daughter of his father or the daughter of hi... Click to read the verse Deuteronomy 27:22 Click to read the verse Deuteronomy 27:22

Proverbs 6:25 - Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, Click to read the verse Proverbs 6:25 Click to read the verse Proverbs 6:25

1 Kings 11:1 - Solomon’s Wives King Solomon, however, loved many foreign women besides Pharaoh’s daughter—Moab... Click to read the verse 1 Kings 11:1 Click to read the verse 1 Kings 11:1

2 Samuel 3:2-3 - Sons were born to David in Hebron: His firstborn was Amnon the son of Ahinoam of Jezreel; Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 3:2-3 Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 3:2-3

1 Chronicles 3:1 - The Sons of David These were the sons of David born to him in Hebron: The firstborn was Amnon t... Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:1 Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:1

1 Chronicles 3:9 - All these were the sons of David, besides his sons by his concubines. And Tamar was their sister. Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:9 Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:9

1 Chronicles 3:2 - the third, Absalom the son of Maacah daughter of Talmai king of Geshur; the fourth, Adonijah th... Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:2 Click to read the verse 1 Chronicles 3:2

2 Samuel 14:27 - Three sons and a daughter were born to Absalom. The daughter’s name was Tamar, and she became a... Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 14:27 Click to read the verse 2 Samuel 14:27